Wednesday, February 08, 2012

Minty Fresh Real-ay-shun-ship



Got sucked (pushed, some might say? ) into reading the playbook for- well...you know, playing around, and this is what guys are thinking when they hit the 'plateau'...[ Reference: http://bp-theplaybook.blogspot.com/2012/02/larki-over-out.html]. Glad I'm out of this loop. It'd probably be hell.


Clarification: After strong comments from the post's author, I tried to read it again and check the interpretation. Apparently, the post's about moving on when you fall in love with someone else (or I guess if someone else falls in love with you?) - but I still maintain that at a given time in any relationship, things WILL become stale. You could be married to the most beautiful, most intellectual person on earth and still be like: 'why am I stuck with this person?' This is the natural order of things, I guess... 

4 comments:

greenbarney said...

i get you point EYYJAY, but wht if a guy turns her down before actually starting a relationship.....how many guys turn down such an offer, she should take a hint...:/

E.J.Mallal said...

Look, there's no harm in being rejected. Really. You can't force someone to do something they don't want. But to want to move onto some other person just cuz you've hit a plateau in a relationship? That's just insanity. Also, I mean no disrespect to you or your playbook. I just described what I got out of it. May not be the same thing as other people, I guess.

greenbarney said...

two different things....moving on to another person , and moving out of a person who has fallen for you...!


in one instance the guy is acting an ass , in the second he has no other choice!!!

E.J.Mallal said...

Yes, I agree a 100%. Circumstances are different in both cases but even under the best circumstances, you can sometimes get bored eventually (I guess that's what happens to Hollywood couples...)