Got sucked (pushed, some might say? ) into reading the playbook for- well...you know, playing around, and this is what guys are thinking when they hit the 'plateau'...[ Reference: http://bp-theplaybook.blogspot.com/2012/02/larki-over-out.html]. Glad I'm out of this loop. It'd probably be hell.
Clarification: After strong comments from the post's author, I tried to read it again and check the interpretation. Apparently, the post's about moving on when you fall in love with someone else (or I guess if someone else falls in love with you?) - but I still maintain that at a given time in any relationship, things WILL become stale. You could be married to the most beautiful, most intellectual person on earth and still be like: 'why am I stuck with this person?' This is the natural order of things, I guess...
Clarification: After strong comments from the post's author, I tried to read it again and check the interpretation. Apparently, the post's about moving on when you fall in love with someone else (or I guess if someone else falls in love with you?) - but I still maintain that at a given time in any relationship, things WILL become stale. You could be married to the most beautiful, most intellectual person on earth and still be like: 'why am I stuck with this person?' This is the natural order of things, I guess...
4 comments:
i get you point EYYJAY, but wht if a guy turns her down before actually starting a relationship.....how many guys turn down such an offer, she should take a hint...:/
Look, there's no harm in being rejected. Really. You can't force someone to do something they don't want. But to want to move onto some other person just cuz you've hit a plateau in a relationship? That's just insanity. Also, I mean no disrespect to you or your playbook. I just described what I got out of it. May not be the same thing as other people, I guess.
two different things....moving on to another person , and moving out of a person who has fallen for you...!
in one instance the guy is acting an ass , in the second he has no other choice!!!
Yes, I agree a 100%. Circumstances are different in both cases but even under the best circumstances, you can sometimes get bored eventually (I guess that's what happens to Hollywood couples...)
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